"FIND-A-MATE" 10 COMMANDMENTS for SINGLES

​1 – Know thyself (personality profile)
 
2 – Know what kind of relationship you want
 
3 – Know what you want in a mate (“Design-A-Mate”)
 
4 – I will qualify all prospects (“20 Question Interview”)
 
5 – I will end a dating relationship as soon as I see it is not meeting my requirements and objectives (“Lose-A-Mate”)
 
6 – I will learn to meet prospects anywhere, anyplace and anytime (personal introduction techniques)
 
7 – I will make myself available to the opposite sex as much as possible
 
8 – I will not consider anyone as geographically undesirable
 
9 – I will use my friends, neighbors, family and associates plus all available resources to help me find a mate
 
10 – I will find a mate that is ideal for me
 
FOUR NECESSARY INGREDIENTS FOR A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP
 
1 – Physical attractiveness – you must have a physical attraction to the other person (in other words physically acceptable to you)
 
2 – Communications – you must be able to understand why the other person does what they do and be able to communicate your wants, desires and needs plus dissatisfactions to them
 
3 – Chemistry – intangibles about the other person or being together that is sometimes unexplainable
 
4 – Conditional – make sure the other person wants the same things in life as you and is heading in the same direction